The Trio of Intimacy: Unveiling the Similarities Between Sex Positions
By Charlie Beaular
Sexual intimacy is a beautiful and diverse realm where couples can explore and indulge in their desires. While there are countless sex positions to choose from, three timeless classics have stood the test of time: Woman on Top, Doggy Style, and Missionary.
These positions hold immense popularity among couples due to their unique blend of intimacy, pleasure, and connection. In this blog post, we will explore these three positions and shed light on their striking similarities that make them an integral part of the sexual repertoire for both men and women.
The real truth is that any sexual position you can find in the kamasutra or any other sexuality book is basically a variation of these 3 basic sex positions. Think about it. I am not saying that it’s not fun to try new sex positions. It is fun, and I encourage you to try them all if you fee like it.
But remember that when it comes to having the orgasm, you want to be able to concentrate on your sensations, and not to be thinking about how to maintain your foot behind her head while you squeeze your abs and stand on one leg.
1. Woman on Top: Empowerment and Control
The Woman on Top position, also known as the Cowgirl or the Reverse Cowgirl, is beloved for its sense of empowerment and control. In this position, the woman takes the reins and straddles her partner, facing either towards or away from him. The freedom to control the pace, depth, and angle of penetration grants women a sense of dominance and allows them to navigate their own pleasure. From my personal experience, this is the easiest position for the woman to have her orgasm, as she has full control of everything.
Similarities:
a) Connection and Eye Contact: While the Woman on Top position provides women with a dominant role, it also facilitates intimate eye contact and connection between partners. By locking eyes, couples can deepen their emotional bond, enhance intimacy, and communicate their desires without uttering a single word.
b) Exploration of Sensations: The Woman on Top position allows both partners to explore new angles and sensations. Men can experience intense pleasure from the direct stimulation of the penis, while women can find pleasure in the clitoral stimulation or the G-spot pressure, depending on the angle and movement.
2. Doggy Style: Wild Passion and Deep Penetration
Doggy Style, a position cherished for its primal appeal, offers a unique blend of passionate intensity and deep penetration. In this position, the receiving partner gets on all fours while the penetrating partner kneels behind. The angle and depth of penetration in this position can often be quite intense, leading to heightened sensations and pleasure. Doggy style is one of men’s favorite positions, because it’s visually very exciting to see a woman in this position, and it also gives him full control of speed and intensity.
Similarities:
a) Surrender and Trust: Both the Doggy Style and Missionary positions require a sense of trust and surrender between partners. In Doggy Style, the receiving partner trusts the penetrating partner to navigate their pleasure and provide stimulation from behind. This surrender can lead to a heightened sense of vulnerability and intimacy, fostering a deep emotional connection.
b) Enhanced Stimulation: Doggy Style allows for deep penetration, which can stimulate the G-spot in women and provide a sense of fullness for men. Additionally, the position offers an opportunity for manual clitoral stimulation, enhancing pleasure for women.
3. Missionary: Intimacy and Emotional Connection
Missionary, often regarded as the most traditional and intimate position, brings couples face-to-face, enabling deep emotional connection and intimacy. In this position, the receiving partner lies on their back, while the penetrating partner lies on top, face-to-face. The simplicity of this position allows for a focus on physical and emotional connection rather than complicated maneuvers.
Similarities:
a) Emotional Bond: Missionary position provides ample opportunity for intimate physical contact and closeness between partners. The face-to-face position fosters emotional bonding through eye contact, gentle caresses, and the ability to communicate feelings, leading to a heightened sense of intimacy.
b) Clitoral Stimulation: The Missionary position allows for easy access to the clitoris, making it ideal for women who enjoy direct stimulation during intercourse. This position allows for manual or oral stimulation, adding an extra layer of pleasure and intensity.
Conclusion on the Best Sex Positions
While Woman on Top, Doggy Style, and Missionary positions may appear distinct at first glance, they possess striking similarities that contribute to their enduring popularity in the realm of sexual exploration.
If you analyze all the kamasutra positions, you will clearly see that each position is a variation of these 3 basic positions. The only differences will be the angle of penetration and the positions and the angles of body positions.
For example, look at the image below, the curled angel position. This position is basically a doggy style position lying on the side. You can apply this analysis to every sex position you can think of.
Each position offers unique benefits, such as empowerment and control, deep penetration, emotional connection, and clitoral stimulation.
By embracing the variety and versatility of these positions, couples can embark on an intimate journey that caters to their desires and fosters a deep emotional bond.
Remember, open communication, consent, and mutual respect are essential for a satisfying and pleasurable sexual experience, regardless of the position chosen.
One Final Tip
Exploring new sexual positions brings excitement and can be visually arousing, and personally, I thoroughly enjoy it.
However, after years of experience, I have arrived at a fundamental conclusion that I would like to share with you. When it comes to the moment of orgasm, the best approach is to return to your favorite basic position.
To experience orgasm and truly relish in the pleasure, it’s crucial to be in a comfortable position where your body isn’t strained. You don’t want your heart to be racing because you’re trying to support your partner’s weight with your arms or engaging in physically demanding maneuvers.
So, by all means, try out new positions, have fun, and enjoy the variety. But when it comes to achieving orgasm, it’s wise to be smart and return to your preferred basic and comfortable positions. This will ensure a satisfying climax during each sexual encounter.
